An excerpt from Mark Galli’s Chaos and Grace: Discovering the Liberating Work of the Holy Spirit:
Freedom is not some abstract concept about the ability of the human will. It is nothing less than a way to talk about love. When writing about love, I’m often tempted to add an adjective to it and talk about uncoerced love. True love is always uncoerced, always freely given. But we live in an age in which love is often construed as an obligation or a quid pro quo. We love our spouses because they love us. Or we are required to love the poor. And so forth. I want to add the word uncoerced not to suggest that love can be coerced but to emphasize this essential attribute of love.
Love is always free, and when one finds freedom, one will find love. God’s love for us is uncoerced and so freely given that it does not demand a response. But so freely is it given that it creates freedom in the recipient, so that our response is not one of obligation or duty, nor the returning of a favor, but uncoerced love.
The word the Bible often uses for our response of uncoerced love is thanksgiving. Paul says that as “grace extends to more and more people” it will “increase thanksgiving, to the glory of God” (2 Corinthians 4:15). Thanksgiving is a word, and a tone, that characterizes all of Paul’s letters.
So the synonyms expand: to live in thanksgiving to God is to live in uncoerced love toward him (in obedience) and toward others (in service). There we go again, another seeming antonym (freedom versus service) that in Christ amounts to the same thing. (p. 105)