I didn’t catch the interview on Nightline, but these sobering admissions from Sandra Bullock’s ex are undeniably powerful (ht MM):

“When I was doing it, you know, one, I knew it was horrible, it made me feel horrible,” he said. “And two, I knew I would get caught eventually, and I think I wanted to get caught … It was me trying to self-sabotage my life.”

I “took a pretty amazing life and amazing success and marriage … and threw it away by my own hands,” he said.

James said despite his desire to spend his whole life protecting her and his children, he managed to hurt her most.

“I think [I am] the most hated man in the world, now,” he said.